Reviews

“I couldn’t have done all this without you, you have been amazing and a wonderful tower of strength to me.”
Ms WC, Surrey

“You helped me enormously to get my divorce moving. After such a long time feeling stuck, I’m still pinching myself that it is happening. You helped me to keep going at the moments when I completely lost hope to get anywhere with this. It took me ages to accept that my ex has strong narcissistic traits. Not the worst case, he lives in his world and can’t cope with people not behaving how he wants them to. He gets hurt easily and acts out without realising the damage he is making.

Most importantly, I learned so much from working with you so far. Just follow the process, take one step at a time, and you’ll get there. So I’m not too worried about how it will go or how long it will take.

Thanks again for being such an important part of this journey.”
Ms AU, Sussex

“Thanks again. You’ve been a life saver.”
Mr MA, Buckinghamshire

“Thank you so much for your time on Friday. It really helped to give me clarity and the courage to say I wanted to leave him. I did leave our relationship as it was on Saturday, and I am not returning to it. Time will tell if it can change, and I am no longer feeling stuck – I can leave at any time if things don’t change.

The metaphor exercise that you used was very enlightening and a powerful way to help me to see the truth behind all chaos I was experiencing and the best path to take. Thank you Diana.”
Ms MA, Surrey

“Thank you so much for the talk today, it helped so much and I feel more back in control now. I have taken time to write a careful email to him.

This spreadsheet looks so thorough, thank you so much – I will get straight on to it.

Thanks also for the advice about slowing down and getting it right. I think I only realised this morning that it was so far reaching into the rest of my life.”

Ms EM, Surrey

“You helped me more than you know with me and my daughter and my ex. If you remember it was an extremely wicked case of parental alienation, with my ex convincing my daughter that I didn’t love or want her. But luckily with yours and my barrister’s help, we were able to prove in court it was abusive parental alienation. This actually got recorded in the Cafcass report. Since then my relationship with my daughter has healed and I can’t thank you enough for your help throughout.

My friend has found herself in a similar situation. I am so angry at how this broken system is allowing her ex to use their child to pursue emotional abuse against my friend who is at breaking point. She is a strong and clever lady, but this ongoing effort by her ex is really taking its toll. She has today been put in touch with Women’s Aid, however I think your expert insight will really help. As I know what a relief it was when I finally felt from you that you understood exactly what was going on (and that I was not crazy!!!) I think my friend needs to hear this too.”
Ms RS, Lancashire

“I’d like to thank you again for all the extremely valuable support and guidance. You helped guide me at a very low and challenging time and I will forever be grateful.”
Mr BM, Cambridgeshire

“Thank you so much for the advice yesterday, I found the whole thing extremely emotional but so comforting to be believed.

I would never have come so far through this process in such a sane, sober way if it was not for you. Everyone needs a Diana in their corner.”
Ms DS, Surrey

I have complete trust in you and highly respect your honesty, interest in my child first, open minded analysis of situations and very human approach. There’s no way a lawyer can replace you, especially as I often struggle to see the right decision. It would be like losing a friend and I would feel very lonely if I couldn’t speak with you anymore!”
Ms GD Walton, Surrey

“I was going through a messy separation and divorce from a very difficult person.  I had seen three solicitors and paid out a lot of money, they all gave me differing advice, each contradicting the other.  I was at my wits end and googling narcissists and solicitors that could possibly help when I stumbled across Diana’s website and called her.  The first time I spoke to Diana, I received more useful advice than all of the solicitors put together had given me.

I am not sure what I was expecting before I started to use Diana’s services (I was desperate) however, what I did receive was invaluable information and help, Diana always tried to help me through every stage of my divorce and settlement and she actually cared.  Diana not only has a vast knowledge of the kind of person I was dealing with but had the tools to help me move forward bit by bit.  Diana and I mostly communicated by email but also spoke on the telephone occasionally, she always replied promptly.  Diana helped me to represent myself and reply to the letters from my ex’s solicitor competently.  My ex and myself are now divorced and have finally finished our financial settlement and I am under no illusions that without Diana’s help, there is no way I would have reached this huge milestone.

I wanted to say thanks for everything, you really helped me when I didn’t know which way to turn and who to ask.  I think the service you provide is amazing.”
Ms WL, Cambs

“Diana helped me enormously in dealing with a very sensitive and serious legal situation brought upon me by my troubled ex-partner. Her sensitive understanding underpinned by sound legal knowledge was indispensable throughout a difficult time. I could not have faced it as well as I did without her – I came out of it all feeling a great sense of peace, and that is quite something.”
Ms RB, London

“Thank you for all of your help, you have truly touched my life in a positive way – I will always think of “Mumma Bear” – and I want you to know it has all been very much appreciated.”
BA, Sussex

“I can’t thank you enough.  It feels like in 24 hours you have done more for me than all the therapy I received to heal from this drama.”
CK, London

“I came across your website because I was looking for help for a close colleague and friend whose husband had upped and left after 35 years of marriage with no warning. She didn’t know where to turn and he seemed to think that he was in control of her future plans even though he had left her. As a divorced person myself I knew that she needed proper help. After I emailed you for your free guide I printed it and showed it to my friend. It provides clear advice for people who are vulnerable and know nothing about divorce. She felt stronger after reading it and knows that you are available to talk to. I wish I had seen the guide before my own divorce, and talked to you too, even though my own circumstances were very different.”
Ms MR, Barnes

“Thank you for helping me to believe in myself again.”
Ms KM, Surrey

“I have worked alongside Diana on a number of occasions and have seen first hand her committed, common sense and sensitive approach. People working with Diana’s support have, in my experience, a clearer picture of what they hope to achieve and, as a result are able to give excellent instructions to their lawyers and no doubt save considerable time and money (and reduce their stress levels) as a result. Diana is never afraid to think outside of the box and I was privileged to work with Diana and actually help one couple stay together. I would urge couples thinking about separating to seriously consider how using a divorce coach could benefit them and to contact Diana to talk through their options.”

Kathryn McTaggart
Woolley & Co, Solicitors
www.family-lawfirm.co.uk

“Diana Jordan offers an effective and affordable service which is backed up by her knowledge, experience and enthusiasm. Her advice is measured and always reflects her obvious care and attention to detail. She can be a good confidence builder for those under pressure. As a litigant in person I found her responses to be prompt and always of good value.”
Mr M M-H, Wales

“I was initially speechless, then outraged by your suggestions.  BUT …. they have worked and are working. I have appreciated your support and compassion during the really tough spots I’ve been in.  Thank you.”
Mrs WA, London

“Diana has been helping me for the past year with problems of contact between my daughter and her father.  She has helped me focus on what I wish to happen and has given me invaluable advice on how to get out of my daughter what she would like to happen.  She has good humouredly and sometimes amusingly helped me negotiate my way through a very tricky time.  Supportive and always sharp on the subject of the law I would recommend that the “Divorce Consultant” path be taken by all, it should save you £££££’s and speed the way to new life.”
Mrs RK, London
 
“Just one session had a big impact and gave me clarity and confidence.  My friends tend to say what I want to hear, to stop me worrying, but Diana helped me to face what the issues were, look at where the doubts and fears were coming from and then supported me to take the necessary action.”
Ms GC, Avon
 
“Five years after the conclusion of my divorce proceedings I was not having enough contact with my daughter but could not afford further legal fees. Diana helped me to make an application to the court and accompanied me to the hearings. Her guidance through the legal procedure was clear and precise. I also found her empathy, understanding and encouragement added further support in difficult situations.

Highly recommended.”
Mr MY, London

“You have been of invaluable support to me, my voice of common sense.

You are clear thinking, perceptive, concise and focussed on the issue. You are unbelievably kind and empathetic, reassuring and wise. I honestly wonder how I would have got through the past few months without you.

I rang you on a whim having spotted you on the internet, and it was the best thing I have done in all of my mess.”

 

 

Divorce Consultant Diana Jordan